Perfection lies in the eyes of beholder!

You all probably know this cliché very well – “No one is perfect in this world.” I do agree with this but to an extent. Motivators often tell us that everyone has his own securities, those flaws they wish to conceal, those empty holes in their personalities he wants to fill in order to complete himself. Every one of you wants to make himself better either for others or for his own contentedness. It’s a good thing though but sometimes somewhere in this struggle we start to underestimate ourselves. It’s a fact that a very few consider them perfect but those who don’t really feel comfortable in their own skin become way too critical hence start considering themselves wretched and miserable. And this is the very moment when anyone begins his journey towards ultimate failure, to say the least. You lose your confidence and end up doing nothing. You stop believing in yourself and eventually lose hope. It stands to a reason that hope is solely responsible for your success; it’s a thing with feathers. It kind of invigorates us hence compels us to take a leap while shunning away negativity. Hope helps us fight our demons. It brings life to our thoughts and lets our mind generate positive vibes.

It’s all true but this isn’t only about accepting yourself wholeheartedly as you are. Yea, I do believe in embracing your imperfections and to think that it’s okay not to be okay or it’s okay not to be perfect. However, my point is that it’s more than this. If you just take a moment to contemplate, you will definitely feel something unordinary. You’ll find that everyone is perfect in his own way. It may sound platitudinous but that’s the reality. Me, you, those people we get to meet in our daily life, we all are loved by a number of people who are somehow linked with us. If not many then a few probably do. Yes they do! If not few, there is definitely someone who loves you moon and back. It doesn’t matter if you’ve realized it yet or haven’t. Furthermore, you know why they love you? Because they think of you to be perfect – perfect in every manner, perfect in this world of perfectionists.

Many of us surely take our lives for granted. We utterly ignore all those blessings we’re blessed with and then we call ourselves losers, non-achievers and what so ever! Moreover, making the matters worse we tend to accept it as a reality in most cases. The only thing you need to know is that you are perfect exactly as you are. It is very ok if you don’t get to hear this a lot. It’s ok if you don’t have that perfectly pale skin. It’s certainly ok if you don’t have a big circle to spend time with. So it’s better to say that all are perfect in their own ways. It is merely a matter of mentality, difference in views and how you analyze things. Remember, the way another person think can never give you the obvious judgment about yourself. It’s their life, their choice and their priorities. One can never impose his opinion on you and get away so easily with it unless you are willing to put confidence in it. I personally have lost many things, missed many chances and opportunities because I misjudged myself. I failed badly to recognize my abilities thus underestimated my power. But my abilities aren’t to blame but my inner strength. I didn’t want to believe in myself so lost hope gradually and failed to try. I caged myself in restrictions and set my boundaries. I legit put limits on everything I did. I just want to say that it’s just in your head. No doubt it’s the game of your mind if you can handle it well nothing can stop you from being successful. You will make a difference for sure once you overcome your fears.

Personal satisfaction is the most important ingredient of success. You feel contented with what you have when you’re fully satisfied inside. Don’t ever judge yourself through the eyes of others. We all have different standards, have different priorities and carry a different stance about different aspects of life. You don’t have to compare yourself with others and you can’t even. I so want to put down this quote here that you will never be happy if you constantly look for what others have. And if you aren’t satisfied then go ahead, make an effort and make it better. Believe in yourself and hope for good to come rather than being extremely ungrateful inviting the whole world to crucify you for no reason because you cannot fend off criticism either. But don’t let others’ say faze you. Let your mind dwell on these things and try to feel comfortable in your own skin. Because you are phenomenal, you’re pretty, you’re perfect!